5 Hearts · Adult Contemporary · New Adult Contemporary

How We Deal with Gravity by Ginger Scott

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When her son Max was diagnosed with autism, Avery Abbot’s life changed forever. Her husband left, and her own dreams became a distant fantasy—always second to fighting never-ending battles to make sure Max was given opportunity, love and respect. Finding someone to fight along her side wasn’t even on her list, and she’d come to terms with the fact that she could never be her own priority again.

But a familiar face walking into her life in the form of 25-year-old Mason Street had Avery’s heart waging a war within. Mason was a failure. When he left his hometown five years ago, he was never coming back—it was only a matter of time before his records hit the billboard charts. Women, booze and rock-n-roll—that was it for him. But it seemed fate had a different plan in mind, and with a dropped record contract, little money and nowhere to go, Mason turned to the only family that ever made him feel home—the Abbots.

Avery loved Mason silently for years—until he broke her heart…completely. But time and life have a funny way of changing people, and sometimes second chances are there for a reason. Could this one save them both?

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What I think Avery and Max would be like in looks. Even though Max isn’t into hugging, I think this picture depicts them, very well.

When I first read the synopsis about this book I knew it was something I wanted to read. I finally got the opportunity.

Avery’s struggles are real! Her ex-husband (the douchebag) left her. She was a single mom with a one-year-old that was given a diagnoses of something she had no clue about. She had her best friend and her father. There was no room for anyone or anything else to take up her time. She knew that the only person fighting for her son, would be her. So Mason showing up and reopening old wounds wasn’t in Avery’s plans. She had to many other things to deal with, then having to deal with her heart regarding the one boy who truly broke her heart in high school.The emotional, mental and physical effort it takes to go out in public and do ordinary things can be extremely difficult for any mom, but add having a child with special needs makes it excruciating. I give my heart to Avery when she was disturbing the fear and anxiety she was having when ever entering a new situation with Max or when he was having a melt down. The first chapter of the book I was crying. I mean like huge crocodile tears

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I know this is Zac Efron, but I imagined Mason looking like this (after his hair cut).

because of Avery struggling at the grocery store.  I have seen those people and heard them. I used to be one, before I understood. Avery is such a strong women.

I loved how Max was into space. I love how Ginger Scott showed how easy it was for Max to pick up music. He has a photographic memory and his auditory skills carry over to that too. He was great. I have seen those people and heard them.

I am glad that Masons didn’t understand what Autism was and that he had to have it explained to him. There is SO much more to it, then what was described in the book. I loved that music was such a large part of this book; and, I mean not the pop stuff either. We had inspiration from Otis, Cash, and Stones. Got to love a book that knows good music.
Avery’s father, Ray, was the old wise man in the story. Almost like a fairy-god-mother that was keeping everything in order with the other characters. I truly enjoyed his loving rough exterior ways.

This book gives the readers highs and lows. It has such strong themes of personal strength, sacrifice, over coming ones fears, and autism awareness.

I am so grateful I finally read this book. It is something that was entertaining, heart pounding, inspiring and total swoon worthy. I hope you all enjoy it as much as I did.

                        If you haven’t read this book,YOU MUST!  

Max is always telling me about gravity, and how it pulls two masses together. Gravity. That’s what I’m feeling right now.”

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He was about 6 in this photo. Around the same age as Max, in the book.
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My nephew and I at Disneyland. Him and I always said, “Peace out.” It was our thing
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Personal Story
When I was a teenager my sister had her first son. He was the light of all our lives and I loved him. He was so smart and funny and adorable. Around two years old things felt off to my family. My sister took him in and he was diagnosed with autism at 2 ½. It was very difficult for everyone, especially my sister. She would cry at night and struggle during the day. She submersed herself into studying and reading about the disorder. She did everything, changed his diet, took him to all his therapies, and changed many other things in their lives to make his easier. Unlike Avery, in the story, my sister had her husband and all of us for help. We would try going to restaurants and he would have a melt down because of the noise. Life was difficult. That little boy is now going to be 12 years old. He is very high functioning. He has been taken off  the Autism diagnoses, but he still has some social struggles. He is SO SMART! I mean the kid knows geography of the world like the back of his hand. He is into space and enjoys asking questions and is curious about everything.  I love him so much.Most people for their 21 birthday go party and drinking with their friends. On my 21 birthday my family and I went to an Autism fair in Southern California that they hold every year. I spent the day eating Gluten and Diary free cupcakes and playing games with my nephew. It was great. I will always remember that. I would haven’t changed that experiences for anything.

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Every April I promote Autism awareness month to help inform people of the reality of the diagnoses. I am going to put this book out there as a must read in April to help bring more knowledge and bits of reality regarding the struggles individuals and families go through. 
https://www.autismspeaks.org/

THIS IS A MUST READ!!!! It has everything we love about NA, and it has more!
WHEN (not if) you do read it, tell me what you think below! 

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